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September 2, 2011

Would You Want To Know If Your Lover Is Cheating?



I was riding in my car the other day bumping my iPod on shuffle and one of my favorite Mario Winans songs came on. The song from his second album on Motown called "I Don't Wanna Know" was based on a sample of the Fugees' 1996 hit single, "Ready Or Not" and is probably one of the most memorable songs from the R&B singer and musician.  Mario Winans comes from a talented musical family and he has worked behind the scenes for many years writing and producing, singing and composing music.

While listening to the song I thought about what the actual lyrics were saying.  In the song, he receives word that his woman was cheating, but he won't talk to her about it because he can't endure the betrayal of the infidelity.  So he proclaims that he doesn't wanna know if she's cheating, and if she is, she needs to keep it on the low, so he won't find out.  I started wondering how many people actually feel this way about their significant others.  We all know that cheating is one of the #1 deal breakers in relationships, but how many relationships actually survive because their lover was never caught or they turned a blind eye to the signs?

The old saying says "what you don't know, won't hurt you" so maybe its best for all involved, that if your spouse or lover cheats on you that you never find out.  I would like to hear from my BornTooBlog readers.  Have you ever turned a blind eye to the cheating activities of a significant other?  Would you rather NOT know if your lover is cheating on you?  If someone saw them with someone else, would you mention it? 

I'm assuming the majority of people would confront their significant other, but I'm pretty sure there are some people that just Don't Wanna Know.

WEIGH IN!

Here is the video for good measure...ENJOY!

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