Every time I watch one my favorite reality shows called "Bridezillas" I sit back and wonder how these crazy women got these men to marry them. I always thought a man wanted to marry a woman that would let him be the man, support him and his endeavors and give him peace when he is at home. However, these ladies who seem to capture these men's hearts are everything but the "model wife". They talk down to their men, suck them dry for money to pay for ridiculous wedding and personal expenses, throw temper tantrums, curse them out, physically and verbally abuse them and pretty much humiliate them on national TV. Then I thought maybe this occurrence can be chocked up to casting, because believe me, it is definitely worth watching. But I started looking at some of the married couples I know personally, and although they might not be as extreme as the couples on "Bridezillas" they definitely have that "bitchy" attitude and personality to them.
So what am I missing? Do the bitches have it right? Do they know some sort of secret that the rest of us need to catch up on? Why is it that the women with the worst attitudes and the most drama get the happily ever after? No wonder they say most married men are miserable, because they keep marrying bitches that make their lives a living hell and then the same men want to cheat and have mistresses that aren't bitches like their wives (don't even let me get started on that). There are even books that give you a step-by-step approach on how to be a bitch and land your husband or make a man fall in love with you. Wow!
I don't know about you, but all of this bitch talk is making me dizzy. I'd love for you all to weigh in on this!
I would love to hear feedback from the Males:
Did you marry a bitch and why?
If so, do you regret marrying a bitch?
What about a woman being a "bitch" attracts you?
From the Ladies:
Does being a bitch get you what you want?
Are you a reformed bitch?
Did you used to try to be nice, but realized the bitches got all the perks?
Here are some highlights of the shows brides going H.A.M. (Hot Ass Mess) on anyone in a 5 mile radius...ENJOY!
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Maya..when you get a chance...pick up "Why Men Love Bitches" by Sherry Argov. This book delivers a unique perspective as to why men are attracted to a strong, confident (sometimes bitchy) woman. Definitely a GREAT read!
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Yeah some of that drama was just for TV...the chocolate cake girl..come on LMBO anyways. I think that there are men that love Bitches like there are Women who love dogs...at the end of the day
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I used to watch The Swan and other makeover shows and it would trip me out that these women are all married and want to change their face or bodies drastically when the husbands aren't complaining or are they?