When discussing my relationship status with an ex-boyfriend, he relayed to me a very poignant line that I had never heard. He said, "Men f*&^ goddesses and marry mortals". When he said this I was genuinely taken aback until I let go of the shock of the statement and went deeper into the meaning. What he was trying to say is men love to run around freely expressing their sexuality and lustful desires with women who in today's modern age represent Goddesses (think Marilyn Monroe, Cleopatra, etc.), but often marry a more conservative, and shall we say, less adventurous woman (think J. Lo vs. Jennifer Garner).
When I sat and thought back to how this cliche could play out in this day and age, I thought about the growing trend of Hip Hop stars getting boo'd up by ex strippers like Amber Rose or femme fatales like Natalie Nunn and how these women never seem to stick their sexy feline claws into their backs deep enough to keep them for good.
There is no secret that men love women who are freaks in the sheets. If this were not the case, the porn industry would not be grossing $14 billion annually. It is also no surprise that men growing up like to sew their oats and have sex with as many women as they can. This has always been a rights of passage for young men evolving into adulthood. But lets take a look at the current state of affairs when it comes to lustful activities. We have all seen an increasing trend in pole dancing classes and classes on how to dance like a stripper in order to "keep your man satisfied". So, I'm wondering, once you learn how to climb the pole then drop it like its hot, does a husband come after? Do women find it that if they can put it on a man and make him scream that he will wife her up just like that?
I'm curious to know what priority sex really plays when it comes to getting married and settling down. Would a man give up the sexy nympho for the straight-laced career woman? Or do you have to be ALL OF THE ABOVE to get married these days.
I'm honestly curious and I pose this question to the men, but ladies, feel free to chime in:
WHO WOULD YOU RATHER MARRY?
AMBER ROSE VS. MONICA
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| Amber Rose |
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| Monica |
TIA MOWRY VS. NATALIE NUNN
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| Tia Mowry |
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| Natalie Nunn |
KESHIA KNIGHT-PULLIAM VS. RIHANNA
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| Keshia Knight-Pulliam |
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| Rihanna |
Fellas...You decide!
Ladies....Chime in!
