November 29, 2011
Video Spotlight: Don Trip feat. Cee-Lo "A Letter To My Son"
I recently heard this song on the radio and was taken aback by the honesty and realness of the lyrics. This song is my first introduction to Don Trip, a street poet from Memphis, Tennessee, who's mission is to be the voice of the people in these difficult social and economic times. Don Trip enlisted the voice of one of my favs, soulful Cee-Lo Green. Cee-Lo is known for bringing deep emotions out of songs and elevating them to a platform that speaks of the struggle in a way that is not only socially conscious, but also pleasing to one's ears.
The song entitled A Letter To My Son displays a father speaking to his only son, expressing the difficulties of raising the son, when all his mother wants to do is use him as a bargaining tool due to their failed relationship. I spoke about this occurrence when I initially started my blog in the post Where's Daddy? Too often, young fathers find themselves struggling to build relationships with their children due to the mother being difficult, caddy, messy and down right selfish. I never understood why a mother would want to keep her children from their father. Most children in urban neighborhoods barely get a chance to see their fathers, let alone see them at all. Naturally, when I see mothers keeping their children away from their fathers who want to be in their lives, it makes me angry and confused.
There are so many fathers out there that are going through this, which is why I wanted to highlight this song to give a voice to the proud fathers who will have to wait until their children get older in to explain their misunderstood absence. Mothers might think they have all the power, but ultimately, once the children realize what's going on, they will now be subject to the inquiries and judgement of their children. Who really is winning in this situation anyway?
I appreciate Don Trip for bringing this occurrence to the forefront, in the hopes that some mothers will recognize the error in their ways and finally put the child first. As I said in my previous post on this subject, if the father is violent or a detriment to the child, by all means, restrict his access to his children. However, I will never justify keeping a man from his children due to their lack of funds or even further, a failed relationship between the child's parents. It is no excuse and these women need to stop it immediately before they ruin their relationship with their children altogether.
Take a listen to the song and check out the video:
What do you think about the song and video?
Did Cee-Lo make a nice addition to the song?
Do you relate to the issue Don Trip is addressing in this video?
Have you experienced a jealous/hurtful/selfish baby mother who won't let you see your children?
How does this song make you feel as a father in this situation?