October 22, 2012
Why Do Men Have Kids By Women They Don't Like?
Men having children by women they can't stand is no new occurrence or phenomenon. Sure there are plenty of parents that were in love when they conceived their children, and later, due to unforeseen circumstances, fell out of love. But what about the men who were never in love with the mothers of their children, yet consistently had unprotected sex with these women, knowing they would not get along in a parenting situation, or even worse, that they would be unfit mothers? Who is holding these men responsible for planting seeds in women that they knew beyond the shadow of a doubt would make things hard when it came to seeing their child or would use the child as bait to get the things they want from the man?
I will give some the benefit of the doubt in saying that maybe the woman flipped once she found out she was pregnant or that the man didn't want to be with her, but many men knew the temperament and personality of the women they were having unprotected sex with and instead of "pulling out" or even better, wearing a condom, they chose to go all in. Scratch that, how about choosing not to deal with women whom you have nothing in common with other than sex so things like this don't happen at all? Does something happen when a man is inside a woman that doesn't allow him to restrain himself from ejaculating in her? Does the woman's vagina have some sort of timed vice grip that holds the man inside her until he fertilizes her egg? Somebody help me out here.
It may seem like I'm being silly or funny, but I'm dead serious!!! Why do men continuously impregnate women that they can't stand and have no possibility of having a future with outside of child support cases and birthday parties? It seems to me if said men took a little time to think past their penis, they would be smarter when dealing with women where signs of negativity are already present. A child is a lifetime responsibility and I'm sure many men regret that one fatal time where they let the vagina get the best of them. Men want to be seen as so strong and macho, yet can't fight off a woman that means them no earthly good. What's the point of having muscles and endurance if you can't fight off a lifetime of heartache and regret?
I think men need to think twice when having sex with ANY WOMAN that they deem is not mother or wifey material. That way, they can lessen the chances of impregnating a woman that will literally suck the life out of them throughout the duration of their co-parenting of the child.