Kelly Rowland: Motivation

I'm super proud of Kelly Rowland and her newfound confidence. The way she carries herself now with self esteem and sex appeal is a far cry from when she was living in Beyonce's shadow and promoting everything Bey; as she was a sometimes invisible member of Destiny's Child. I feel like a proud mama who has been silently urging Kelly to spread her wings, fire Matthew Knowles as her manager and fly. Most importantly, I insist that she try not to drop any singles around the same time as Beyonce! While the latter suggestion just may be a mission impossible, I still feel like God has answered my prayers.

I don't know about you, but I've always secretly routed for Kelly. She was definitely my fav in Destiny's Child. And she always seemed to support Beyonce in everything she ventured to do. That's why I wondered why Beyonce seemingly attempts to sabotage her career. The fact is that every time Kelly starts gearing up to drop a new album, here comes Beyonce and her team "leaking" new promo photos and tracks long before they are scheduled to be released, in some inadvertent way, detracting the buzz from Kelly's projects. Yeah I see you Queen Bey. Of course I could totally be wrong and Kelly could be the dumb one. Ultimately, Kelly finally showed how smart she is with her new single and video for Motivation.

Motivation is a slow and sensual track that features a sexy and seductive Kelly sauntering across the screen with the help of her sexy entourage of male dancers. Not only is the "group scene" hot and steamy, but Kelly looks choclatey smooth and better than ever as she reminds us all that she's still got it! The video is VERY edgy and explicit so if you're too prude, don't even bother watching lol. It's for the adventurous voyeur in you. So take a peak and enjoy. If this track is any indication of what's to come on the album, I'm motivated to hear more.

Check the video here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s1XozsBN5Z4

Men Have Sex With Goddesses and Marry Mortals

When discussing my relationship status with an ex-boyfriend, he relayed to me a very poignant line that I had never heard.  He said, "Men f*&^ goddesses and marry mortals".  When he said this I was genuinely taken aback until I let go of the shock of the statement and went deeper into the meaning.  What he was trying to say is men love to run around freely expressing their sexuality and lustful desires with women who in today's modern age represent Goddesses (think Marilyn Monroe, Cleopatra, etc.), but often marry a more conservative, and shall we say, less adventurous woman (think J. Lo vs. Jennifer Garner).

When I sat and thought back to how this cliche could play out in this day and age, I thought about the growing trend of Hip Hop stars getting boo'd up by ex strippers like Amber Rose or femme fatales like Natalie Nunn and how these women never seem to stick their sexy feline claws into their backs deep enough to keep them for good.

There is no secret that men love women who are freaks in the sheets.  If this were not the case, the porn industry would not be grossing $14 billion annually.  It is also no surprise that men growing up like to sew their oats and have sex with as many women as they can.  This has always been a rights of passage for young men evolving into adulthood.  But lets take a look at the current state of affairs when it comes to lustful activities.  We have all seen an increasing trend in pole dancing classes and classes on how to dance like a stripper in order to "keep your man satisfied".  So, I'm wondering, once you learn how to climb the pole then drop it like its hot, does a husband come after?  Do women find it that if they can put it on a man and make him scream that he will wife her up just like that?

I'm curious to know what priority sex really plays when it comes to getting married and settling down.  Would a man give up the sexy nympho for the straight-laced career woman?  Or do you have to be ALL OF THE ABOVE to get married these days.

I'm honestly curious and I pose this question to the men, but ladies, feel free to chime in:

WHO WOULD YOU RATHER MARRY? 

AMBER ROSE VS. MONICA



Amber Rose

Monica

  
TIA MOWRY VS. NATALIE NUNN
   

Tia Mowry

Natalie Nunn



KESHIA KNIGHT-PULLIAM VS. RIHANNA



Keshia Knight-Pulliam

Rihanna


Fellas...You decide!

Ladies....Chime in!